If you don’t accept responsibility for your life, someone will.

In order to live life in complete freedom, you must accept and exercise responsility for your life. Take responsibility for the things you can manage and influence. Accept that you cannot control outcomes, only the inputs. If you are not getting the output you desire, it is most likely because you are focused on or trying to control an input that does not actually influence or produce the result you desire. Explore different inputs, look at the things that others who are ahead of you focus on and work on those inputs.